Amy Kaplan, the spirited 63-year-old contestant from The Golden Bachelor Season 2, has seen her social media direct messages light up with interest from potential suitors since her departure in Week 3, turning what could have been a quiet exit into an unexpected wave of romantic opportunities.

Amy Kaplan stepped onto the set of The Golden Bachelor with an open heart and a playful spirit, ready to explore new connections at 63. But after a brief three-week run on the ABC reality series, where she didn’t find a lasting spark with leading man Mel Owens, Kaplan quickly discovered that her television journey was far from over. Instead, it catapulted her into a flurry of real-world attention, with her direct messages overflowing from admirers eager to get to know the full-time mom and “momager” to her internet-famous twin daughters.

In an exclusive interview with The New York Post, Kaplan shared the surprising turn of events, describing how her brief spotlight on the show has transformed her dating landscape. “My DMs are going crazy,” she revealed with a laugh, noting that the influx includes not just casual acquaintances but a mix of past connections and complete strangers drawn to her vibrant energy. “Like anyone who I even had one remote single date with or I had a drink with,” she added, emphasizing the breadth of interest. From men she’d crossed paths with years ago to newcomers inspired by her on-screen presence, Kaplan’s phone has become a hub of possibility, proving that sometimes the best chapters unfold off-camera.

Kaplan, a resident of Short Hills, New Jersey, entered The Golden Bachelor Season 2—premiering in late September 2025—with the kind of unfiltered enthusiasm that quickly made her a fan favorite. As a professional manager to her daughters, Allie and Lexi Kaplan (better known online as The Kaplan Twins, with a combined following in the millions on platforms like TikTok), she balanced her role as a devoted parent with her own quest for companionship. “A casting director reached out to my daughters and said, ‘We need her.’ I’m like, ‘What? A reality dating show … You know what? I’m open to it. Maybe I meet the love of my life on there,’” Kaplan recounted to The Post. At the time, the idea of sharing her story with a national audience felt like a fun adventure, especially since she’d never dated an athlete before and was intrigued by Owens, the 66-year-old retired NFL player leading the season.

From the outset, Kaplan embodied the show’s ethos of second chances and joyful reinvention. Her official ABC bio painted her as “bold, bubbly, and goofy as she is beautiful,” a description that resonated during her introductory moments. Viewers saw glimpses of her daily life: whipping up family-favorite potato pancakes, hitting the gym for her signature two-hour workouts, or hitting the dance floor for impromptu evenings out. Family remains her cornerstone—managing her twins’ influencer careers keeps her schedule packed, but it hasn’t dimmed her desire for a partner to share in the fun. “Family is everything to Amy,” her bio noted, “so much so that she works as a professional ‘momager’ to her Internet-famous twin daughters.”

Yet, as captivating as she was, the chemistry with Owens didn’t ignite. During a group date in Week 3, Kaplan sensed the disconnect early. Dressed in a cheerleading outfit—a nod to Owens’ sports background—she brought her signature playfulness, but his response fell flat. “I expected him to either have said, ‘ruff ruff’ and gone for the bacon strip or he would have gotten on his hands and knees and panted … but he looked at me and said, ‘What’s wrong with you?’” she recalled. That moment crystallized for her that their paths weren’t aligning, leading to her elimination without a rose. Far from dwelling on disappointment, Kaplan viewed it as a gentle redirection. “I never dated a jock before, so I was totally open to it for sure,” she said, but ultimately, the show served as a confidence booster rather than a definitive endpoint.

Now, with episodes airing and her profile elevated, Kaplan is fielding a steady stream of outreach that feels both flattering and empowering. She’s quick to clarify the tone: While some messages veer into overly forward territory—prompting her to sift carefully—many come from genuine admirers appreciating her authenticity. “I am used to men chasing me. I am the prize,” she declared confidently, a mindset that’s served her well. One standout connection? A man who echoed Owens’ “trainable” line but with more enthusiasm, prompting Kaplan to quip, “If you want to get to know me, you come to me.” Her approach to this post-show surge is pragmatic yet optimistic: She’s open to coffee chats or casual meetups, treating the attention like an extension of her “kid in a candy store” dating philosophy from her bio.

This whirlwind isn’t entirely new for Kaplan, whose life already buzzes with visibility thanks to her daughters. The Kaplan Twins have built a brand around throwback vibes, family humor, and lifestyle content, often featuring their mom in viral skits. A recent TikTok from the trio hyped her Golden Bachelor debut, with Kaplan playfully declaring, “Who’s tuning in on September 24?! @The Golden Bachelor 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ #momsoftiktok #momtok.” That post, set to a nostalgic soundtrack, garnered thousands of likes and comments, many cheering her on as the “cool mom” ready for her spotlight. Her elimination episode, aired in early October, only amplified the support—fans flooded social media with messages like “Amy deserved better!” and “You’re a queen—go find your king off the show!”

Kaplan’s experience aligns with a broader trend in Bachelor Nation, where early exits often lead to unexpected perks. Past contestants like those from The Golden Bachelorette have shared similar stories of boosted visibility translating to real-life connections. In a 20 Questions feature with BachelorNation.com, Kaplan reflected on her time in the mansion: “My favorite part of being on ‘The Golden Bachelor’ was: Getting all glammed up. I’m usually running around in my gym clothes makeup-free, so it was fun to step into this mode.” She also appreciated the lesson in vulnerability: “Being on ‘The Golden Bachelor’ taught me: That it’s OK to put myself out there and just continue being my quirky fabulous authentic self.” Her biggest pet peeve? “People who chew with their mouth open,” a lighthearted reveal that underscores her approachable charm.

Physically, Kaplan is the picture of vitality, crediting her daily fitness routine for keeping her “bikini ready” even at 63. During the show, she embraced challenges like poolside dates without hesitation, showcasing a body-positive attitude that’s inspired viewers. “I wasn’t intimidated to wear a bathing suit or a cheerleading outfit on the show,” she told The Post. Off-camera, her routine includes cooking hearty meals and dancing—activities she hopes to share with a future partner. As for red flags, she boasts a “built-in BS detector,” honed from years of navigating family dynamics and the influencer world.

Looking ahead, Kaplan isn’t rushing into anything but remains game for serendipity. With Season 2 still unfolding—six contestants remain in the running for Owens as of the latest episode—her story adds a feel-good sidebar to the drama. Fans tuning in weekly get to relive her highlights, from goofy one-liners to heartfelt chats, while she navigates her own plot twist. “She’ll have to weed through the DMs to find them,” noted one observer, “which is a much more wholesome way to go about love than on a reality show.”

For Kaplan, the show’s true gift might be this reminder of her appeal at any stage. As she sifts through messages, she’s selective but excited: “I told him, ‘If you want to get to know me, you come to me.’ And he did.” Whether it leads to a lasting match or just more stories for the family TikToks, one thing’s clear—Amy Kaplan’s golden era is just getting started. In a franchise built on roses and rejections, she’s blooming on her own terms, one DM at a time.